Empowering women to get unstuck, to goals and have a partner to achieve them is what working with me is like. .
Even with #techediting, I can’t help but want to see you grow and reach that next level, even when you’re fighting tooth and nails, digging in your heels with excuses like “it’s not perfect yet!” You might not know that that form of perfectionism is you procrastinating because you’re afraid.
You’re afraid of failing and everyone seeing it - news flash, nobody looking at what you’re doing that close. Plus, you can’t fail if you’re learning from the experience, right?
You’re afraid of failing and everyone seeing it - news flash, nobody looking at what you’re doing that close. Plus, you can’t fail if you’re learning from the experience, right?
Or you’re afraid of success, of what your life will become - which is even worse than the fear of failure.
And this is why I believe so much in coaching because while you can do it alone, but imagine going through the jungle and facing all the wild animals and traps and vines, you slashing away and getting turned around because you missed a turn on the map. You’re still heading towards the mountain, but your path looks like a zig zag. Now, imagine that trip through the jungle with a guide that’s done the trek a thousand times and can show you the shortcuts and the areas on the trail to avoid.
THAT IS WHAT COACHING IS! Having a support partner to help guide you along the way.
Now, I say this ALL the time, and if you’ve done any coaching with me you’ve heard this a million times and I will continue to say it forever because it applies - give yourself some grace to learn and make mistakes. Don’t beat yourself and quit just because it was as perfect as you had in your head. Just keep moving forward, one small step in front of the other and you’ll reach your goals.
If you could use a guide on your journey, I’d love to work with you. Let’s chat. Link in bio or go to tianconnaughton.com/coaching
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